Should an affair be disclosed to a spouse?

that mouth looks awfully manly.

 

I shaved her mustache. It was a Brokeback Mountain bargain clearance

 

what is that old therapist saying? you can't build a sound relationship on a foundation of lies?

 

WOW I thought I had th only one. I never took mine out of the package,. it looses value

 

I take it that plan A is a NO.

 

I've never cheated, never would. But i'd be the first to admit, even to my fiance, if I found someone attractive. I've looked at someone and said to myself, Damn, I bet they're good, but I can honestly say i've never even contemplated cheating even when the opportunity has presented itself.

Theres been many occasions we've confessed to each other quite shamelessly that someone was bangable. Usually in casual conversation:

"The new girl started at work today." - him
"Oh yeah? How'd that work out?" - me
"Pretty good, she seems to know her shit." - him
"Cool. Is she cute?" - me
"Yeah, she's a little short, but pretty cute." - him
"Yeah? Would you hit it?" - me
"Yeah. Probably." - him
"Sweet."- me

 

Excellent point.

 

Yeah and call me a cynic but I bet true love is a really rare thing. Like 2% range. Fidelity statistics probably fair much better just because people hold out for hope, honor, or self dignity something of that nature.

 

Sad, but all too true.

 

You guys have stupidly high standards, fuelled by notions of fairytale romance and too many re-runs of Pretty Woman.

You meet someone, you enjoy sleeping with them, you move in together and find you still like and trust one another a year later. What's that if it isn't love?

 

convenient act of desperation

 

Good insight. :lol:

 

At last, Joe knew, he had his perfect relationship ...