I have 2 friends that have told me something along the lines.. " your new guy is not in the same league as you" and I seriously dont know if they mean ... I am out of his league or he is outta my league. I think we are pretty equal. SO what I am wondering.. in your current relationship.. or past ones... did you think you were out of the other persons league? or the other way around.. just curious .. and WTF determines this "League" is it looks, job, money, baggage, age, past?