Now that I have your attention: I am talking about Valentine's Day. I asked my wife what I could get her for Valentinesâ€™ Day and she said she didnâ€™t need anything. She said we could just go out to eat. She also said not to buy her a card, just to make one on the computer (so I wouldnâ€™t spend â€œourâ€ money on anything sheâ€™ll just discard.) Sunday morning, however, in addition to the bags we had out for our kids, she had me a box with balloons and red paper on it. Beneath the â€œI love youâ€ note was a Sony BluRay player. I donâ€™t mention this to brag about my wife. I seek advice. Was this a set-up? Was I supposed to get her something or is this a â€œIâ€™ll-buy-myself-something-later-and-you-canâ€™t-say-anything-about-itâ€ card? Is it a guilt account sheâ€™s saving up for later? Am I in trouble or just really loved? I did make the card and wrote upon it an original love poem, but that was it. - Concerned (but also stoked about the BluRay player).