Sudden DRASTIC living arrangement change fell into my lap...

It is being a fact that the discussion of sex is a being a good thing. When a girl is asking Sanjay back to her home, and is stipulating that there is not to being any sex, Sanjay is excited because sex is being clearly in her mind, and Sanjay be knows he is getting his end.

 

Im not sure what sanjay said, but I think he means that talking about sex means she's thinking about it.


Lomo, if she has a mini-van she can live in that. Down by the river.

Im not sure what happened to stop the relationship/engagement, but the issue is still there. Plus she sounds kinda flighty, with the jobs and what not, and seems to like being unattached. Let her stay a couple of days, to get her self started and then get her out. Dont fuck her. Bring someone else home and fuck them instead, with her there, sleeping on the couch. Then walk into the kitchen ass naked, get something to drink, then on your way back to the room, look at her and go, "Oh I forgot you were here"......

She'll be out in no time.

 

I like your way of thinking Phat. 8)

 

I have to say, that is good fucking advice (pardon the pun).

 

Good fuckin advice about fuckin I mean fuck if you are ganna fuck then you should fucking read that fuckin shit. Know what I mean?

 

Update: No 'sudden drastic living arrangement plans' adjustments. She's staying back at home until she finds a job. Then, she will probably find a place with two of her friends that need to move out as well.

And still no sex. Why do I keep talking to this girl, anyway?

 

(Or to her, for that matter...)

 

Yeah it's the end you will marry her for sure now. Once they get in your home you can't get them out.

Trust me I tried. Even finding you in bed with their best friend isn't a sure fire way of getting them out.

Just go down to the judge now dude. The ball & chain are in place.

 

Well aren't you the greedy little bearer of glad tidings?

 

The vulnerable person=free sex thing is the exact reason that it is against the law for Counselors to have sex with a client.

As a matter of fact, Alabama Law makes it a crime for a Counselor to have a sexual relationship for 2 years after the client is discharged from treatment.

Thus the Counselor motto -

Don't sweat the petty things,
and don't pet the sweaty things.

 

A similar law exists in Alabama for veterinarians.

 

:lol: :lol:

 

You just gotta go and burst my bubble like that don't ya Barry.
:|

 

Yeah, must have been disappointing to just have your wife standing there shouting "No, no, Grimy! A dog is a man's best friend, you idiot!"

 

Update request Lomo.

 

She's not going to be moving in. I hadn't seen her in almost a week (a record), then I finally broke down and took her a 'care package' because she's had a cold for the past few days, and spent some time with her. Probably shouldn't have done that, hindsight being 20/20 and all.

Today, I woke up and did some studying, met up with some friends, and then spent the rest of the evening (up until now) with this hot Jewish gal... Had a few beers during the course of the night, watched half a movie, and called it a night. She (the ex) called me a few times throughout the evening, but I never answered.

Called her on my way home, and even though we're "just friends" - first thing she asked was "were you on a date?" :?

 

Yeah... :?

If it were only as easy as pushing that button...

 

So do you love this chick or something?

Because in real life it is that easy. Unless you are legally bound to her.

Did you tell her you were on a date? I mean, really its none of her business. But it sounds like you are hoping the two of you get back together again. (you and the one with the van, not the hot jewish girl).

 

Well, unless he's rich, I can't see how the Jewish chick will stay interested. Better keep the cling-on for those cold days of winter, Lomo.