Ferine said... The only person who said she was cheating was Reizvolles. Grim said he didn't care if she was cheating, which I don't buy, but that's all anyone has said on that subject. On a sad note, I posted over 80 times in the last 24 hours. I should get a life, but I don't know where to start.
He made sure to point out they hadn't had sex in 3 months and that she works late every night. In a round about way, he was saying it had crossed his mind.
I'm sure the thought crossed his mind that he was sexually inadequate as well. Doesn't mean that is the conclusion he jumps too. The thought would cross my mind and your mind as well if you were in the same situation. Give some credit where credit is due, knowing Grim if that's what he was thinking he would have said it. I've had that feeling where the woman in your life isn't interested in sex for an extended period of time, and it's a crushing feeling to think that you can't stimulate your partner to arousal. I imagine Grim is having a much harder time with this than any of us know. The question is, how much of it is his doing.
Read it again. I said it's a possiblity. Grim was the one that decided she must be. I think it's more that she needs to be swept off her feet.
Thank for the advice everyone, Also Dan what I do on the net is private and what she does is private. We have always been good about respecting each others space even on the net. So go crawl back into your 1 bedroom utility and tell us in 3 months how you are the bestest brain surgion on the east coast. You simple fuck. Or maybe you will be running black ops out of China or whatever your over active imagination comes up with. Yes I care about my wife, We are good friends and have shared everything with each other. Do I care if she cheated? If its just sex no I don't I can forgive her for that everyone fucks up from time to time. But if it goes deeper then sex then there will be boides.
Is that like when gangsters get binoculars and go out to observe avian creatures in their natural habitat? (Boid watching?) And for the record, I'm 9 years into a very happy marriage. Sounds like the lines of communication are breaking (have broken) down. I agree, a professional and impartial third party should be sought. I'm a big proponent of marriage counsiling. The trick is finding someone you both like. If there's no rapport between the three of you, get a new one. dr laura is an unqualified whore.
IF she read the posts here. The apesex and generally unsavory language, would she react ? Dont seem like the Grimlady but who knows ? Real bad porn can be a turnoff too. I really should stay away from this. I have not been in a good relationship for allmost a year. Broke up and fled the country 8 months ago, and the men and women i have had something with in the interime have not been wife-material. You guys are lucky to have someone, in addition to your obvious wealth and power and jobs and shit. Hang on in there Grim, if she had your twisted humor once its hope :wink:
All about TheGrimJesus Joined: 03 Jul 2005 Interesting. "No man can wear one face to himself (or his wife) and another to the multitude without finally getting bewildered as to which may be true." Besides that, I think she'd be shaving her legs more than once every two months if she was having an affair.
Reizvolles said... Does that mean your having an affair without shaving your legs, or your not having an affair?