How many of you are seperated and have children? Many of my friends have seperated and some have children who have adapted well, mostly as the seperations were amicable. Some though are having big problems with their children. I am very concerned about the happiness of my boys as I think unless either my hub or I recieve personality transplants, we will be going our seperate ways. The house that we are going for is also a huge concern as it will drain us. As we do not have PR and our housing allowance is due to be stopped, we do need to invest in property. FFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCKKKKKKK everything is so fucking difficult :cry: :cry: :cry:
y know whippy I was very surprised to see that that you do in fact have the standard five fingers on each hand, no squint and teeth to boot. Was a huge shock to me and also somewhat disturbing
The biggest mistake I ever made was buying a house I could not afford. Size does matter. The strain of a huge house payment can doom a marriage. Downsize the house and get some Marriage therapy. Barry
honestly though you need to prioritize, decide what comes first and how do you affect it best... if kids come first think about what’s best for them... decide on that... take a course of action.... but don't let your decisions be clouded by some schoolgirl crush … close the fishmarket and buck the fuck up
You are referring to the post about my friend? I was in fact referring to my friend, :roll: . My boys do come first, and at the moment I am concerned that they will set our relationship as their standard. When I was a kid, I used to wish my folks would seperate as the atmosphere in our house was often very tense. My husband is a good man but we have grown apart.
Mia, I think the overall concensus here is (and gentlemen please stop me if I am wrong) no one here cares
I wished that I didn't care. Part of my pathology is that I care about things over which I have zero investment and zero control. Mia - Divorce Sucks. Tell him you are not happy, and demand some changes. Then change yourself, not him. NOBODY can make you happy. You have to be content with yourself in whatever environment you find. Barry
one is the loneliest number sucks dont it bitch? PS: mia i love you and want you to breed a race of super mexican construction workers with me so that we can dominate the construction world
welcome back nursey.. your posts always give me tingles... even moreso when you say things like that... lets fuck b'bh
