Barry, As part of the process in regards to my new job I have undergone a psychological evaluation. We have spoken a couple of times, you have seen my posts for a few years now, and I was concerned about some of the findings that the shrink brought to light. Professional Background: -Former professional hockey player (minor leagues) suffered at least 6 pretty serious concussions -Graduated top in my class at University for philosophy (classical education) -Graduated second in my class for a masters in neuropharmacology Personal Background: -Born in England, United Kingdom - Single Mom, deceased age 3 -Raised by grandfather Northern Ontario, Canada, Cattle Farm -Non religious upbringing -31 years old, single At this juncture I am not going to get into the findings, however I am interested in your opinion, to see if there are any area's that you may respond with that are aligned. Just for the record, I am still employed, but I am trying to be critical of myself for personal growth and development. If anyone has an opinion you are welcome to chime in. Thanks, Checkers
Cool, your 666th post. I've thought you well grounded for this forum even if a bit flippant and misogynistic/sexist. I figured you had a sarcastic persona behind which you stood to keep some distance from the rest of us and that many of your posts were of humorous intent (regardless of success.) As a result I, with no professional qualifications, could not diagnose your true self from a collection of aloof quips (but the flavor of the month is AD/HD ;D.) However, the posts that do seem sincere are those where you offer advice or observation to others on the forum. You seem to be genuinely concerned with the well-being of people here, many of whom, I assume you've not met. Having read your professional background, I'd be inclined to listen to what you had to say as it appears you are among the more educated here (I know that doesn't speak volumes, but I think you know what I mean.) Respect to your grandfather for stepping up and raising you. Aside from you visiting this place (I shant throw stones as I am here), you're pretty fly for a white guy. Now give us a FUCK'N BANG! and drink up. Cheers. Major H
The misogynistic/sexist overtones of my personality come from being raised with very little female influence, playing a violent and male dominated sport, with gladitorial linkings,That part of my personality cost me my last relationship. I am genuinely concerned with people I meet whether it be electronic or in the flesh, I like to see people healthy and happy with a sense fullfilment and contentment. I will get into the findings that bothered me once I get a few more responses. Thanks for input Maj, it's appreciated. Cheers! Checkers
Hit you with the MMPI did they? I would venture it says that you hit a high on the Pd scale. This sounds really bad, but it is typical of people with early maternal abandonment. Also 1. Possible impulse control problems attributable to frontal lobe damage from hockey. Probably not severe, but impulsive responses and reaction get youi in trouble. 2. Attachment issues, leftover from losing your significant maternal caregiver at age three. Adult reacvtive attachment disorder looks like this - Critical of others Sensitive to blame Lack of empathy Views others as untrustworthy Views others as undependable Views self as unlovable or "too good" for others Relationships feel either threatening to one's sense of control, not worth the effort, or both Compulsive self-reliance Passive withdrawal Low levels of perceived support Difficulty getting along with co-workers, often preferring to work alone Work may provide a good excuse to avoid personal relations Fear of closeness in relationships Avoidance of intimacy Unlikely to idealize the love relationship Tendency toward Introjective depression (self critical) Just a quick guess. Anything look right?
Mista' A... I know we've only spoken briefly over the phone a couple times, and we've had a few PM's throughout, but - I have to second what the MAJistrate said, with special regard to your education and concern for other's well being. I find your most recent job to be not only one that has positive repercussions to the persons with whom you directly influence, but also, through attrition, those whom you vicariously affect. You are, indeed, a person that can steer others in the right direction, and I hope that you never find yourself in such dire straits. You should be proud of your accomplishments, and even more so with the job you are involved in right now. I hope the last relationship you mentioned to Maj wasn't the one we spoke of. Are you still planning your move?
I have noticed the apprehensive approach that is your style as of late and for that I genuinely feel bad. I'll try to tone it down a bit so as not to appear as the Alfa-male in this forum so that you can feel a little more comfortable. You have quite a handsome picture there and I am guessing you’re hair may actually be longer now? Would you like for me to braid it?
from my interaction here I feel most of us are the alpha male in our respective lives. That's why we clash so much.
