It's a tough one, isn't it? Sometimes it's best to put it to the gapee/rapee - then do the opposite! That keeps things fresh and exciting. But the problem is the flapping when the gape is introduced before the rape. When I date-gape-rape BullGod666, I simply pierce one of his bulging butt-grapes whenever I need him to tighten his hot, little ass up around my grisly, pulsating manhood. That keeps his 'lady parts' re-usable over and over without the need for the reconstructive medical intervention that a full, slashing rapey-gape inevitably calls for.
You lying fuck!! You told me you wouldn't say anything to anyone, you slut! It'll cost you more than a bag of oranges next time.
