Rez & Ferine or Barry get your asses in here.

Marriage isn't about love, that's where most people fuck it up.

 

What then ?

 

Mutual support, financial stability, partnership, advice, religion, money, children, housekeeping, sustenance. Think about it, Grim and his wife are married and the problems they're having, which one of those has anything to do with love?

 

yeah, but you can have all those things without marriage, right? Where I'm from, you won't get any extra's for being married anymore, you used to get some sort of tax bonus, but for some reason they pulled the plug on that one.

 

you can also have love without marriage. Marriage is commitment to a partnership. Love is a sensation, something that you do. Marriage is the promise you'll be there for someone for better or for worse.

 

Or to take half their stuff if you get bored.. that's some commitment

 

I was speaking in ideal terms, but that's what it's come down to more or less.

 

So to sum up, grimmy's fucked. . . or not fucked in this case

 

Doesn't follow necessarily, but based on what I'm hearing he doesn't really care. He's over this relationship anyhow.

 

i mean , he's gonna lose half his stuff to some two-timing biatch

tough luck grimmy

 

Ok Grim, here goes.

1. Rule out sleep Apnea. If she snores heavily, she is probably not sleeping well. Excessive daytime sleepiness is a classic symptom.

2. Rule out Depression. She has multiple symptoms. Does she have a family history of Depression? Genetics play a significant part.

3. Insist that both of you go for Marriage Counseling. There is obviously a problem. A trained professional may be able to help.


I am going back to bed now. Don't wake me up again.

Barry

 

You deserve to be eye-gouged and skull fucked, you little prick. Firstly, I have a boyfriend who never even gets online, except to check email. Secondly, Grim is not a pathological liar like you are. He's never given us reason to doubt him like you do every time you post immature, illeducated tripe like this. I think Grim can be a bit of a cockhead sometimes, but you are the cock master, hands down. Grow the fuck up, Danny boy.

 

GJ GJ Wife
1 x box contoller 1 X box
10 X box games The X Box
One chair puked on 10 X Couch urinated on 2x, 10 cigerette burns
1 annoying yappy dachsund 1 cubic zurconium wedding ring

 

Too late doc, we already decided it's over. I'm just waiting to hear where he'll dump the remains. For our other project. See Here

 

That is pretty close to funny. :lol:

I still can't believe that you got into med school with your atrocious spelling.

 

You mean 1/2 annoying yappy dachsund . .But I guess he won't be as annoying by then. .

 

Didn't think about sleep apnea. I thought about the depression and the counseling though. The last thing I want to see anyone do is turn into my parents, meaning they were too stupid to get a divorce when they should have.

 

If you don't care if she's cheating, I'd say you're pretty much done. BUT, if you are seriously considering divorce and you are almost certain she is cheating, do get a PI. She can't take half if she's committed adultery, you'll need proof of this in court proceedings.

If you are bullshitting about the whole "I don't care anymore" thing (that whole machismo thing) and you do still care for your wife, Barry has laid out some very valid points. Talk to her for one thing. Not - the "why don't we have sex talk", or "why don't you get off your lazy ass" talk. But seriously bring up issues you are having with her. Hint: Don't lead in with the sex or lazy ass thing either, it will only complicate matters.

The sex thing. Men have this tendency to believe that women must be cheating if they aren't giving it up. If i'm not getting it she HAS to be getting it somewhere. Right?
Negative. This is a myth, it is stupid and fathers should quit teaching this to their sons. Maybe she's just not in the mood, maybe she doesn't find you attractive, maybe she doesn't think she's attractive, maybe her favorite shows on, who the hell knows...

Ok - so just fucking talk to her.

Don't read Dr. Lauras book, she's a dried up hypocrit who can't keep a husband. What the fuck does she know.

 

Stop helping him out. .. we need actors for our movie . .wanna help out ferine ?

 

No.