After being with my husband 13 years, and I mean EVERYDAY for the past 13 years. I dropped him off at the bus stop @2am. He is heading to a music festival in Florida and will be gone 9 days. Its been so long since we have been apart, Im at a loss of what to do, not so much because im gona miss him like crazy(even though I will).But what does one in their mid thirties do for fun anymore? I dont really party anymore, so going to the bar is out. I dont really have to do anything, but after putting up with him for this long I feel entitled. Weighing my options. Any suggestions?
I dont do shit.... ever. I am the last person to tell someone what to do. I am happy when I am home alone but I don't do anything different than when I'm not. I'm boring and I like it.
I guess it is true, that there are women out there that actually LOVE the man they are with. anyway... gotta run soon and pick up my 'friend' from the bus station... he told his wife he was going to a concert in Florida. just kiddin what kind of concert does one travel that far for... and use up his vacation time??? and leave his family... he has pissed me off. I would have a yard sale/ craigslist sale ... sell all of his crap...use the money to pay for a baby sitter, go out drinking...come home the next day fuck his best friend and/or brother. wow I should write a book on relationships as well as parenting ... or at least have my own advice column ...
Go out with the girl friends do the things he would rather not that you on the other hand enjoy like shopping and shit whatever you girls do. -or- ..... well never mind.
I'am a homebody for the most part(when I'm not working)so I will be enjoying the peace and quiet. I forgot to mention I got rid of the kids for most the week too....This is going to be sweet....... Well lets hear it... This is an option, thought about comming up over the weekend Funny you say that, because when he found out he has a transfer and a 2 hour lay over in Georgia, he did say I wonder if I can get Bigmama on my stick while im there. I do love him with all i have, but damn im glad he is gone for the week, getting to the point I could scratch his eyes out.. Dont have many girlfriends and I dont care much for shopping. Thought about getting the tattoo he doesnt want me to get, but decided against it, I have enouh tats. So for now,until the kids get home. Guess I'm gona run around naked(havent got to do that in years either). Drink some wine and relax.
My Mom took my kids for at least this week, maybe next week too. Since, I work nights though, I can't really take advantage of it.
But this is why I'am at peace. I dont have to hear or do this day in day out. So gona have to stick to the vibrator if I feel the urge this week. But thanks anyway.
So this week somewhere in East Oklahoma we have a lady running around naked in her house by herself with a vibrator. Go figure.
Only if the need arises. Even if it does, not too much can be done about it after tomorrow since the kids will be home then. I think I'm the one who deserves the break, leave him at home with the kids while I run off and have some fun. What ever that word means.
Styx is cool. REO sucks. And 38 special.... is country. It's just under the disguise of rock and roll. They had what? 3 hits? I see the same rednecks at the Cactus Club all the damn time jerking off to Garth Brooks posters and claiming they love Southern Rock. You probally revere Skynard as gods as well. If you want Rock and Roll... buy a Van Halen or Led Zepplin CD. Now the Bee Gees..... thats an awesome band!
