There is a cosmetology school not too far from my house. I went there once. I basically get a high and tight, not much to it. After being ignored for 10 minutes this little asian girl asked if i'd like a haircut. Apparently the girls that were just sitting there talking about their babies daddy's were too busy. She cut one persons and then cut mine. The haircut was $4.00. I gave her a 20.00 and told her to keep the change, since she was apparently the only one that wanted to work. I guess it's my fault for dressing bummy. I figure I look broke and people think I wont tip.
I used to dress like shit when I went to job services to apply for jobs. I remember some guy following me out to the car and asking for my number. I had no makeup on, was wearing a man's t-shirt with holes in it and a faded pair of levis with a hole in the knee (I used to be so grunge) and the guy was a redneck. Who tries to pick someone up at the umemployment office? I probably looked like a homeless junkie, definately not redneck material. He was driving some jacked up Ford. Weirdo.
I have noticed when I look my worst- I get hit on more. What is up with that? I have my "lucky" ugly shirt... its junky faded and comfy - I will wear to walmart / feed store/ yard sales... and places like that - and men check me out like a I have a "I love BJs" sign on my chest. It is not at all slutty ... must have a smell on it or something
I know what you mean. It seems like I've been hit on more when I thought I looked terrible. Maybe they just think I won't say no?
I have noticed, when you dress smart and professional, old men hit on you. When you dress down and casual, young guys hit on you. I just can't win.
Maybe you look more approachable when you are 'dressed down'. They must figure they have a chance. If your dressed up nice, they might think you are 'kept' so you already got a man. I dunno, I dont hit on chicks anymore. I used to get in 'trouble' for joking with hot waitresses so now I just let her order for me and everything....
I remember getting bothered at work on days I looked like crap. I don't get bothered anymore. I work in an office all by myself and look like crap on a daily basis.
That would have to make for long days. I always try to look/smell nice I think that is some OCD thing I have. I will go buy the generic colognes for work. Im not wearing anything nice and expensive to work. So I get the designer imposter deals. They dont smell the same exactly, but close enough. I think my favorite cologne now is Onyx, my wife likes one called Chrome (when she bought me Chrome, it came with a sample of Onyx, so that's what I got myself). She like Polo Black too, but I dont care too much for it.
I only work 5 hours a day. I'll be off work soon. Ah, the knock off cologne! They come up with the funniest names... Used to joke about that stuff years ago with this guy I dated for a few. I always have a compulsion and have acted on it a few times to spray people with that aerosol junk. I remember spraying the shit out of this girl with Rap Musk. But if someone sprays me, I get all pissed off.
Yea, those things are a little different. You dont have to pump the sprayer, its like lysol. Unless you get the 9.00 bottles from Walgreens...... I just cant see paying 45.00-50.00 a bottle to wear to work.
I don't even wear makeup to work most days and when I do, I have certain makeup for it, so I pick up what you're puttin down. I like lotion and body sprays more than perfume, normally. Perfume gets a little too strong so I spray it out and walk into the mist.
Im a perfume whore.. I want everyone to smell me within 10 feet. I guess I always wear makeup- at least eyebrows and foundation and lipstick. But if I go out out- I do the whole shebang... and have to stop myself before looking like Tammy Faye and a drag queen's love child. Sometimes I will get in my car and go WTF..and start taking some off. back on the topic of the guy- he showed up at my house 20 minutes ago... I did not open the door. I never gave him my address, that is kinda creepy. I looked out the window when the dogs were going crazy... and told my kid to turn off the TV and stay still. I watched him in the peephole, he knocked, knocked louder, called my name... walked over to the fence and pet the dogs.... knocked again and left. I am embarrassed because he saw all my junk on the patio This is strange.. I live way out in country - no where near him or his work... its not like he can say " I was in the neighborhood" and my house is hard to find. I talked to him on Sunday, said I would go out next weekend. I think he thinks I was not sick last weekend and was blowing him off... I wasnt - but I think now I will. The Dubi dork called Saturday 2 times in 10 minutes - I did not answer- then he blocked his number and called 2 minutes later- still did not answer. I think he is smart enough to get the hint... he never did call "stinky Sarah" men are odd. I think I need to become a dyke. or now that I have a new computer... stick to porn- it runs much better now
Are you done with your three day course? That guy sounds creepy. Reminds me of this guy that found my house once. I didn't tell him where I lived, yet he was at my door one morning. I lived out in the country too. I didn't answer the door but watched him out the window from a distance. He peeked into the garage and left. I talked to him later and he questioned him how he found my house and he was like, you told me that you lived by the so and so, so I just drove around until I saw your car. WTF? The road was a dirt road, dead end. Later on he told me he knew where I lived because he and his friend (I dated his friend) used to drive out there at night after I broke up with his friend. So his friend was a stalker and later he turned out to be because he would drive by my work all of the time and then deny ever coming there. If either one of them ended up killing someone, I wouldn't be surprised. I'd stay away from both of them. Guys are supposed to be cool, not stalkery and clingy. I'd be having a coronary. Uh, just remembered another guy who was stalkery. He had a girlfriend and was bothering me. He called one night for hours and hours, over and over. I took the phone off of the hook and a couple hours later, put it back on and it was him again. He was a weirdo.
I figured out how he got my address... from a home phone - I looked it up and bam- there is my address... and a map to the house WTF. Plus one thing we talked about when we first met was my new GPS... and he said he had one. Yeah I go around braggin about my new gadget - I feel all high tech just wait till I get a music thingy- I will never shut up. Hell my family and friends are already sick of hearig about my new computer and all its holes. It has a hole for my dig cam to put the card thingy in... but showing up at the house - is not cool. I dont like anyone to do that- and I get real pissed... except for my sister.. but lately she always seems to drop in when I am watching porn.
Nevermind the guys just looking for a good laugh by calling your work late at night, asking for your alias... and then accusing the operator of drinking on the job... Remember - you said it yourself... It's the quiet ones you have to watch...
Are guys that desperate in Atl???? In WV, I could see it, there are probably slim pickings up there for quality monkey. There are a lot of guys that do dumb crap. I remember when I used to go clubbing with my gf back in the day, she would tell me about some guy touching her butt when we walked by. She would always tell me after we left, because if I had seen it I would have probably put him in a coma. (theres mucho respect issues) I have never understood people that did stuff like that. 'Hey I'll rub her butt and she'll want me' ? What? The stalkery thing too. Ive always lived by the rule (when first meeting someone) is that you dont call them right away, or all the time. Chicks dont like guys who are needier than them. Once you have been dating for a while and you are all goo goo then its a little different, but more along the lines of talking to them for extended periods of time if you havent seen them that day, or for a couple of days. When I was back in school and my gf was working (normal day hours) she would always leave her phone on silent so I could leave her drunk messages. Hell I still did that after we broke up, it would always lead to some make up sex. I would leave nice messages, not 'Oh my god, why arent you answering your phone' type message....
NO my shit it that damn good... you gotta remember - I have a top of the line, hardly used, limited addition, hot monkey- drove the poor guy crazy he cant help it oh well- I moved on- dont like his ass anymore- I like an Egyptian guy now- shit I need to finish getting divorced.
haha ...that is the frist time I have really LOL on here. Im retarded. you know I almost typed LE... I have no idea why I did that - now that a fast computer I have like 3 websites going...2 IM windows.. I am all over the place I never fuck that up... now I get the Except..Accept thing mixed all the time
